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« Reply #60 on: November 26, 2007, 20:47 » |
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I went to post this this morning before work and clicked the Post button as I was walking out the door, it didnt send lol.... but weather oir not this is resolved:
Wow i agree with Marco, this thread as gone down a lot since last night.
Dag, you are a super admin, I cannot see how this should mean you should stop adminning the forum. I have made some real big clangers on my forum and have felt about jacking my admin duties in. If I had then my forum would of been closed long ago.
You ARE a good admin, you have kept the site running through some bad server problems and we would have this place if not for you.
What everyone seems to forget on this type of multinational forums is the simple fact. English is NOT everyones first language.
Even for the best non-native english speaker, sometimes the results do not sound like the author intended. While a post was meant to be loving, it can come out patronising, a post meant to be kind, can be cruel to others. THe feeling of the post can be lost in translation.
I know for a fact dag cares deeply about this forum, the commumity and it's members and I can see the reasons for the post clearly, does that make him a bad person, No.
Brakusaetsya
I hear where you are coming from, I have been there thought that ect. I hope you can get back to feeling better soon! Every member here i can see is a valued member.
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« Reply #61 on: November 26, 2007, 20:51 » |
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Aw... i'm so relieved about that. Thanks Bra  *expands group hug*  And about behaving better... you must not do it for us, i'm sure we all understand how bleak it can look at cetain point in our lives, and venting it out is comprehensible and understood. But you must do it for yourself, and as you said, step by step is the way to go. This is already a pretty big one. Same for you Dag  The negative feelings make problems bugger than they are. Thinking about them rationally helps, and knowing that there's people around you that is willing to give their support also helps. So let us help.  Oh and also, what Empe said is very important: Even for the best non-native english speaker, sometimes the results do not sound like the author intended. While a post was meant to be loving, it can come out patronising, a post meant to be kind, can be cruel to others. THe feeling of the post can be lost in translation.
This is very true. We should be proud of managing to defeat one of the biggest barriers that is the language. We shouldn't underestimate this problem. 
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« Reply #62 on: November 27, 2007, 00:00 » |
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*joins in the group hug* Come on Serge, LTS isn't LTS without you. You're a great admin, and just because you worry (maybe a little too much) about low activity doesn't mean that we don't want you. There were some misunderstandings, but come on, can't we work through those? There's certainly no reason to let this tear us apart. After I've read through some of what our other members have posted, and hopefully from whatever I've contributed, I think it should be apparent to you right now how people here feel about you, and LTS overall. This forum is a great place to be, you shouldn't worry so much about it. Come back mate  Lisa misses you...
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I'm still awake against my will What will it ever take To still this burning in me?
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« Reply #63 on: November 27, 2007, 10:25 » |
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Er... thanks for the sweet words, but I'm not planning to go back to the admin position for now. You all said that I should be more calm and patient about the whole activity thing, and I believe that being a regular user, it would be much easier for me to do. Besides, I still remember that sad feeling of distrust and misunderstanding. And I've shown that I'm not good at all in solving certain situations. So I need some time to rest from all this. Again, I'm not leaving the forum of course, and Marco surely will be able to handle any tough situation (in fact, he does it much better than I do). I'll just keep posting and praising Lisa's cuteness. brakusaetsyaI'm sorry too... I wish I was more calm that moment and understand you better. *hugs Bra while everyone is busy with Liser*
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« Reply #64 on: November 28, 2007, 14:46 » |
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i'm sorry for visiting this forum way too rare last days. real life takes time..... small activity shouldnt be the reason to be so anxious. you all would only feel only worse if the place gets spammed with meaningless posts from kids who all consider to be #1 fans in the world. take it rationally :-) just wait some time.if the activity keeps dropping, raise the alarm. not before you sure youre under the treat of losing the forum.
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« Reply #65 on: November 28, 2007, 15:53 » |
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I should probably be saying this in a PM but Dagdamor, I really need to talk to you at some point on msn if possible I'm just really sorry about my level of activity 
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« Reply #66 on: November 28, 2007, 16:02 » |
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Black_ravenI'd love to, but last days my MSN refuses to work for no reason :/ I will try to connect now, and if it won't work, I will send you a PM. And please don't feel bad  I don't want anyone to feel bad. In fact, I want the opposite, I want this place to be something that makes you cheer up.
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« Reply #67 on: November 29, 2007, 09:31 » |
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Alright, time for me to think of some excuse;-) You see, I can't go online because... well... let's say I can't afford it:-) I'm a poor underachieving university student, I'm ever starving and I've got nothing but a mobile phone and a ppc that I use to go online sometimes to escape this cruel world. Nah, it's not that terrible, actually:-) It's just a bit difficult to type on the ppc, so I avoid writing long texts when I have a chance to. But I'll try my best not to forget this forum and participate in discussions from time to time. Thanks for understanding:-)
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« Reply #68 on: December 05, 2007, 18:51 » |
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Dagdamor I'm afraid it's time to post in this topic again.
I'm sorry for my absence again. I'd rather not to talk why I had to do it, because there's not so much sence, if only the misanthropy from my side. And - most of all - I clearly realize that LTS is a _people_ first of all, their thoughts, not some ghostly image of an idea. All has its physical embodiments and our Lisa is first of all the people, who love her, who still care.
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« Reply #69 on: December 06, 2007, 08:22 » |
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I hope you guys don't feel forced to post in here for some kind of apology, but i must say your words are very appreciated and show you care about this place, and for that i thank you. Ygg: All has its physical embodiments and our Lisa is first of all the people, who love her, who still care.
This is very true, i couldn't have found better words.
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« Reply #70 on: December 10, 2007, 18:07 » |
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Has anyone noticed or cared that hadnt posted at all in the past week or so?
My laptop died and had to be repaired, and I got it back today.
Expect the same to happen over New Years when I fly away to the SMF Meeting of the Minds in Tucson.
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« Reply #71 on: December 10, 2007, 19:56 » |
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Has anyone noticed or cared that hadnt posted at all in the past week or so?
I noticed, and i'm glad you're back  Also glad to hear about your laptop. I already take into account that during the holidays some people will not be able to be online most of the time, anyway. Me included, since next week i'll be away with no internet connection for a week in the high mountains 
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« Reply #72 on: December 10, 2007, 20:48 » |
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Do what you think is best dude. Dont let stuff get you down, and I do agree that staying calm is always good, (one of the reasons I made the rant thread, to blow off steam), but none of us truly know what you are going through. So only you can really decide what the best course of action is, I hate when people take stuff to heart, which is Why I always like talking in person, sarcasm can be heard not typed ^^.
In response to the apparent unpopularity of this forum, dont panic, Its nearly christmas, people are gonna be too busy with that kinda stuff, family days out, that kinda stuff. Besides, this is by far the best forum I have ever been on, regardless of subject, image or people, this is an awesome place. The amount of ''high octane, full on conversation'' found in most forums is like being smashed repeatedly with a piece of heavy mining equipment upside the head. My brain physically hurts. Here, its a thoughroughly enjoyable experience ^^.
Im not just gonna big the place up, its up to all of us to help out. As for the low activity..... Ill be working on that.
PS - No sarcasm was used during the making of this post... Thanks Dag ^^
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« Reply #73 on: December 11, 2007, 15:34 » |
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ALMWelcome back, SMF dude! SykeThanks for the support. I feel better now. If anything makes me really worrying is two certain people who disappeared some time ago (not only from LTS, from anywhere), and don't even reply in ICQ. I hope the reason is high occupation and nothing really bad happened since we chatted the last time. Aside from that, I fine now, really. And Lisa is an angel again to me. 
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« Reply #74 on: December 11, 2007, 18:13 » |
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ALMWelcome back, SMF dude!  Heh. I'll be going away again pretty soon. This time on SMF business no less. 
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