Hello all, just found this site and was reading through a few topics. I came across this one and it struck a chord.. sorry for bringing up an old topic. I am relitively new to the simpsons, only regularly started watching it shortly before the movie, as I work strange hours I rarely got to see it, and my parents hated it so didnt get to see it much when I was younger. I have had a really rough patch recently and found myself empethising with Lisa as I have been tormented like her.
My take on this is based on own experience. bart DOES deeply love Lisa, but under all the male bravado he finds it hard to show. I am male myself and find it hard to show love to my sister. (she is the middle sibling I am the youngest and we have an older brother who was unruly like bart). My brother was mean to the both of us but deep down I know in a strange way he does care. I myself tend to make jokes when it comes to expressing my feelings to my sister as a "quick get out of jail free card" just to make things easier on myself. I think Bart does the same, he picks on her, makes fun of her and generally acts up in order to protect himself
How many boys and men do we know who have trouble expressing thier real feelings. In a way I think Bart is more insecure than Lisa is and needs to have the attention, which he lacks from Homer. I think this makes him act up to get that attension.
In acting up towards Lisa he is trying to steer some of that attension his way. I dont really think Bart is totally selfish but uses it a lot to get the attension he craves. He tends to know when he has gone to far and can show remorse.
I know he deeply loves her because of a couple of simple reasons. Some of his worst behavior tends to happen when he is around others, a macho bravado to impress others or get attension, or that he wants somethinkg Lisa has got. When you see them alone together, quite a lot of the time they are playing happily, laughing together or just getting on with things.
Also some of his worst behavior happens when angered, I have lost control towards my sister when younger a few times and have hert her emotionally. A defense of mine was to run away and feel bad about the situation on my own, rather than make the situation right.
Also in a few episodes it shows that when he does not really need to show he cares, he does.
In 7G06 - Moaning Lisa the following:
Marge: Do you think you could be nice enough to your sister, Bart?
Bart: Oh yeah, easy.
Marge: You do love her don't you?
Bart: Oh Mom...
Marge: Well you do, don't you?
Bart: Don't make me say it. You know the answer, I
know the answer, he knows the answer, let's just drop it, ok?
Marge: Okay, Bart, you don't have to say it, but you do have to have a
loving attitude. Be nice to your sister.
Bart: Okey dokey.
the abouve highlighted passage suggests to me that he is just very shy and uncomfortable about expressing his feelings.
Another prime example is 9F02 - Lisa the Bauty queen, when with no sneaky alterior motive of having to be nice to her, he just is.....
Lisa: Those other girls are prettier than me.
Bart: Lis, as your bother, this is the hardest thing I've ever
had to say......... You're not ugly.
Lisa: Oh Bart!
Bart seems to understand she needs his support more than ever. If he was truely nasty and didnt care, he would of only done this if he would of personally got something out of the situation.
Again thier love is shown in FABF07 - Milhouse Doesn't Live Here Anymore,they end up as best friends during this episode. When milhouse comes back and Lisa again feels rejected and lonely, Bart realises this in the end and "fixes" a monopoly game with cards which have him dong things for Lisa, the sweetest one shown is the card which she requests to use right away " 1 free hug". Again Bart probably will not gain anything out of this himself if he was nasty minded.
Anyway sorry for this long post.... but one final example is 7F24, Stark Raving Dad. He does not get Lisa a birthday present. She runs of crying into the house.. later he is shown looking a tad upset in his room, I expect he didnt really think that not bying a present would of been such a big deal. But as he realises. He and "Michael Jackson" come up with the famous song, although he does make up and offensive song to start with, MJ says we got to get to his true feelings.. and they do. Again the song has two phrases that mean a lot

Happy Birthday Lisa:

Lisa its your birthday
And God bless you this day
You gave me the gift of a little sister
And I'm proud of you today
Lisa its your birthday
Happy birthday Lisa
Lisa its your birthday
Happy birthday Lisa
I wish you love and goodwill
I wish you PRAISE and joy
I wish you better than your heart desires
And your first kiss from a boy
Lisa its your birthday
Happy birthday Lisa
Lisa its your birthday
Happy birthday Lisa
Yeah!
Again sorry for the long post

just my 2 cents on the subjact, and sorry for my spelling, I am writing this on a TV which has the most cramped keyboard I have used
