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« Reply #30 on: June 13, 2007, 20:52 »

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I've just imagined Lisa playing baseball with Homer at their yard, dunno why, and that's why I start thinking about it Smile

But maybe 2 years age gap is not big enough to really change something. If Lisa would be much older then her brother, maybe she could be someone like big Maggie - less sensitive, more self-reliant and more boyish. I doubt that a little bit young age could stop Bart from hurting his sister, so even 2 years elder she would be suffering Sad And of course I agree, that how goes it best with Bart as elder child, cause Lisa as middle child could show much more to spectators and be more sweet and adorable that in other age.
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« Reply #31 on: June 14, 2007, 05:00 »

I think that Lisa is the way she is because of the situation she's had to grow up in, and everything she's been through. Serge helped me realize this throughout the span of our many chats, that if she had everything she needed or had some kind of advantage and didn't have to go through what she does, that she wouldn't be the caring, sensitive person she is. I think the reason why most people who are like Lisa are like this because of a strong sense of empathy; a feeling of "Hey, I know how you feel, been there done that, I understand" - it helps to have gone through suffering, if only just to know your fellow man better.

Would this change if Lisa was ten and Bart was eight? I think their personalities are mostly determined by the fact that Bart is a male Simpson Wink But you never know, if Lisa had been spoiled, I think perhaps things would have been different.
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« Reply #32 on: June 14, 2007, 05:43 »

I think the "first child-second child" thing is more important than the "male-female" thing. So, if Lisa was the first child in the family, Marge and Homer would probably love her and indulge her more. That could spoil her character... like it happened with Bart, that is. Lisa always was growing up in the shadow of him, so she had to have some self-control, to be more self-dependent. The older sibling is always younger, and the younger sibling is always older. Smile And yes, I think everything Lisa had to pass through, has influenced her character. If her childhood was more unclouded, she wouldn't be as strong.
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« Reply #33 on: July 08, 2007, 14:46 »

I'd say that there's good evidence that Bart cares about Lisa, I can think of a couple of good examples straight up:
In Separate Vocations Bart takes the blame for Lisa's theft of the teacher's editions, in this case he wasn't making up for anything.   Likewise, in 'Round Springfield when Bart uses his compensation money to buy Lisa the Bleeding Gums Murphy album, it's a rare selfless act from Bart so she must mean something to him!   There are other examples I'm sure.


Wasn't there an episode in which a gang of Nelson Muntz's friends were bullying Lisa?  I recall that Bart tried to help Lisa, but got beaten up by Nelson for his troubles.  I also remember another episode where Jimbo and his mates stole Lisa's saxophone, Bart saw Lisa crying, went up and put his arm round her and asked her what was wrong (of course Bart was then beaten up by Jimbo after it was revealled he hadn't been going to his karate lessons).

Bart often helps Lisa other than in trying to make up for doing her wrong, I think people don't notice as much because he can also be quite nasty to her at times, too
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« Reply #34 on: July 08, 2007, 14:50 »

The older sibling is always younger, and the younger sibling is always older. Smile And yes, I think everything Lisa had to pass through, has influenced her character. If her childhood was more unclouded, she wouldn't be as strong.

It doesn't always work like that, my sister is three year younger than me and I spent most of my life before I left home living in her shadow, she is certainly far more academically gifted than I am, but what often went unnoticed was the fact that she often relied on me to get her out of trouble when she was in a tight spot.  In the case of Bart and Lisa, Bart is of course the more immature of the two, but he's helped Lisa out of tight spots at times too.
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« Reply #35 on: July 08, 2007, 15:04 »

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Of course it's not something necessary - it depends on parents, I guess. If parents treat both children equally, they will grow up equally mature (that could lead to even worse kind of rivalry though - just something like that happens between Bart and Lisa). But if parents love the first child more, he/she will grow up more immature rather than the second one who would have to rely on him/herself only.

I agree about Bart wholeheartedly helping Lisa from time to time though. Smile Those are care cases, but they usually are the most sweet moments in the show.
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« Reply #36 on: July 16, 2007, 20:15 »

And that's remarkable their enmity is always - I mean always - is firstly initiated by Bart. And only after that inflamed lavish by Lisa's impatience, especially when Bart says something really offensive for her. For example the beginning of the episode "Future Drama" is the perfect evidence of that. Firstly Bart points to Comic Book Guy saying that is future Lisa' husband. It compels her to answer him that Crazy Cat Lady his future wife, that angers him strongly because of his perfectly the same sensitiveness that his sister have. The only problem, apparently - Bart's behaviour. Having counted upon a simple improvement of mood on account of humiliation of weaker (whom he considers as "vassal" in some way) he meets with a repulse that angers him more and that remark by Lisa that he's fallen in love with Hans Moleman definitively drives him out of his wits. And there's a huge set of such people in life. They would like to have a good time when it's boring and they try to joke, draw somehow the attention. But they can't do that in usual way and so their jokes have extremely offensive character, to touch more painfully as it possible and to seem because of that "cool". I have tested on myself that, think someone of forum mates have too.

To struggle with it possible only - as it results from Bart and Lisa's relations - counteracting rudeness or suffering all mockeries silently. However and Lisa from her part should not concern too seriously sneers, in no event it's impossible to show that sneers have cut you to the quick. Thus it is Lisa who acts like the initiator of application of force when Bart's sneers cut her to the heart, after all she is very sensitive though also kind. Lisa And it is necessary to make a cheerful grimace and to try to laugh the matter off and to make it as more as possible sincerely and more inventively.

All people are divided on simply "peaceful" and that ones who constantly need something, those which internal conflict leads to extrude the negative emotions on associates - weaker or those who does not wish to give worthy repulse. And the most interesting that the "peaceful" not so peaceful actually. Simply they, so to say the "quieter" versions of the bullies. And in comparison to them they see and define themselves as "peaceful" ones. However and they can angrily joke for no particular reason, especially when appears on a place of "teasers". All depends only on internal model of behaviour which you have chosen for imitation (in your early childhood), and also from education. In Simpsons family typical representatives of such types of people are Lisa and Bart (groups of "peaceful" and "squabblers" accordingly), and also at more difficult and adult level - Marge and Homer. It's obvious that the majority of women are representatives of a peaceful tribe whereas the men are more agressive. Though it's not the rule by all means. Wink

Another examples of Bart's aggression - one of the Halloween's episodes when he tries to pierce Lisa with a poker and the series about the children's singer who has liked by Maggie and where Lisa has gained in struggle for remote control. Tongue
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« Reply #37 on: July 17, 2007, 06:13 »

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Nah, not always. Smile I agree that Bart is the "guilty one" often, but sometimes Lisa has her part to blame, too. Unlike Bart, she loses control easier, and starts to fume. Most of the times she just hides in her room and blows her anger into her sax, but sometimes her ability to get agitated easily, leads to very bad consequences.

And about their inner peace - I disagree once again (if I understood you right of course Wink) Lisa is not a peaceful person, neither inside nor outside. Sometimes she can't live in peace even with herself. And you know what happens when she finds out that something is "going wrong" nearby. Even when everything is fine around, she still needs something to vent her energy out. Your definition of a "peaceful" person can be applied to Bart more. I hope that makes sense...
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« Reply #38 on: July 18, 2007, 14:51 »

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I am not sure that I understood you right completely, but I'll try to add something.

1) For Simpson kids both ways - counteracting and silent suffering are wrong. But, as their parents, they're not so good in discussing their problems with each other (even worse, due to their age), so they can't do nothing else. They just need to grow up to their own lifes (especially Bart, of course).
2)Yeah, usually Bart starts the quarrel, only in Tracey Ullman and early seasons they were almost equal. But I think such things as in your example are too childish for Lisa - it's like in kindergarten to use such sentences as who loves Homer more, who should marry Milhouse and who is warthog :\ She should react only if Bart said or done something really important and also to be more careful - for example, when she gave him her steroid-tomato, didn't she know it's a bad idea? I mean, when you have such brother or husband as Bart and Homer, you must be twice more careful and calm than normal person. Last seasons she sometimes acted veeery calm and maturely - like that moment she said him "I can read you like a book" or enforced him to leave parents alone in "Catch 'em...", but sometimes his stupid teasings still bother her for some reason :\
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« Reply #39 on: September 28, 2007, 01:33 »

Hello all, just found this site and was reading through a few topics. I came across this one and it struck a chord.. sorry for bringing up an old topic. I am relitively new to the simpsons, only regularly started watching it shortly before the movie, as I work strange hours I rarely got to see it, and my parents hated it so didnt get to see it much when I was younger. I have had a really rough patch recently and found myself empethising with Lisa as I have been tormented like her.

My take on this is based on own experience. bart DOES deeply love Lisa, but under all the male bravado he finds it hard to show.  I am male myself and find it hard to show love to my sister. (she is the middle sibling I am the youngest and we have an older brother who was unruly like bart). My brother was mean to the both of us but deep down I know in a strange way he does care. I myself tend to make jokes when it comes to expressing my feelings to my sister as a "quick get out of jail free card" just to make things easier on myself. I think Bart does the same, he picks on her, makes fun of her and generally acts up in order to protect himself

How many boys and men do we know who have trouble expressing thier real feelings. In a way I think Bart is more insecure than Lisa is and needs to have the attention, which he lacks from Homer. I think this makes him act up to get that attension.

In acting up towards Lisa he is trying to steer some of that attension his way. I dont really think Bart is totally selfish but uses it a lot to get the attension he craves. He tends to know when he has gone to far and can show remorse.

I know he deeply loves her because of a couple of simple reasons. Some of his worst behavior tends to happen when he is around others, a macho bravado to impress others or get attension, or that he wants somethinkg Lisa has got. When you see them alone together, quite a lot of the time they are playing happily, laughing together or just getting on with things.

Also some of his worst behavior happens when angered, I have lost control towards my sister when younger a few times and have hert her emotionally. A defense of mine was to run away and feel bad about the situation on my own, rather than make the situation right.

Also in a few episodes it shows that when he does not really need to show he cares, he does.

In 7G06 - Moaning Lisa the following:

Marge: Do you think you could be nice enough to your sister, Bart?
Bart:  Oh yeah, easy.
Marge: You do love her don't you?
Bart:  Oh Mom...
Marge: Well you do, don't you?
Bart:  Don't make me say it.  You know the answer, I
          know the answer, he knows the answer, let's just drop it, ok?

Marge: Okay, Bart, you don't have to say it, but you do have to have a
          loving attitude.  Be nice to your sister.
Bart:  Okey dokey.

the abouve highlighted passage suggests to me that he is just very shy and uncomfortable about expressing his feelings.

Another prime example is 9F02 - Lisa the Bauty queen, when with no sneaky alterior motive of having to be nice to her, he just is.....

Lisa: Those other girls are prettier than me.
Bart: Lis, as your bother, this is the hardest thing I've ever
        had to say.........  You're not ugly.

Lisa: Oh Bart!

Bart seems to understand she needs his support more than ever. If he was truely nasty and didnt care, he would of only done this if he would of personally got something out of the situation.

Again thier love is shown in FABF07 - Milhouse Doesn't Live Here Anymore,they end up as best friends during this episode. When milhouse comes back and Lisa again feels rejected and lonely, Bart realises this in the end and "fixes" a monopoly game with cards which have him dong things for Lisa, the sweetest one shown is the card which she requests to use right away " 1 free hug". Again Bart probably will not gain anything out of this himself if he was nasty minded.

Anyway sorry for this long post.... but one final example is 7F24, Stark Raving Dad. He does not get Lisa a birthday present. She runs of crying into the house.. later he is shown looking a tad upset in his room, I expect he didnt really think that not bying a present would of been such a big deal. But as he realises. He and "Michael Jackson" come up with the famous song, although he does make up and offensive song to start with, MJ says we got to get to his true feelings.. and they do. Again the song has two phrases that mean a lot Smile

Happy Birthday Lisa: Smile

Lisa its your birthday
And God bless you this day
You gave me the gift of a little sister
And I'm proud of you today


Lisa its your birthday
Happy birthday Lisa
Lisa its your birthday
Happy birthday Lisa

I wish you love and goodwill
I wish you PRAISE and joy
I wish you better than your heart desires

And your first kiss from a boy

Lisa its your birthday
Happy birthday Lisa
Lisa its your birthday
Happy birthday Lisa

Yeah!

Again sorry for the long post Smile just my 2 cents on the subjact, and sorry for my spelling, I am writing this on a TV which has the most cramped keyboard I have used Smile
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« Reply #40 on: October 01, 2007, 09:51 »

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Guys, i'm so very surprised and happy to see how much there is to see on this topic, as imho it's one of the strongest "glue" that keeps the show together, and it's never underlooked. Smile
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« Reply #41 on: December 06, 2007, 11:13 »

A couple of screenshots from the "Bart vs. Thanksgiving" which could probably revive a good thread.

1. Bart is killing Lisa for glue.
2. Lisa is paying back for that (not even knowing it).

If someone knows what happens in Bart's head these moments, feel free to explain me. I give up to understand Wink

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